Best First Date Spots In London

Calling all love-birds. As if first dates weren't stressful enough, the last thing you want to do is end up spoiling that big day by going to the wrong place at the wrong time. Whether you're looking for a snug speakeasy or something a bit different to get the conversation flowing, use this list as inspo for the best first date ideas in London.

Last edited by Kiera Chapman

Last updated on 12th March 2025



Amazing Grace

Happy Hour Tues - Fri 4pm - 7pm and 1 other offer

Looking to impress that someone special? We know just the place. A Borough watering hole with oodles of personality, Amazing Grace simply screams date night vibes. Head along and get to know each other over delicious pan-Asian food like Japanese fried chicken or tofu and charred broccoli bao buns, alongside top-quality cocktails and craft beer. This former church maintains its stained glassed windows and original woodwork, but now you'll find amazing audio-visual technology and 3D light projections as well - perfect for the regular lineup of live music on offer.

Vagabond - Various Sites

Stylish, relaxed and bursting with excellent bottles of wine, Vagabond is a top spot for making that first date a good one. With venues sprinkled across South West and Central London, you're sure to find one that makes the perfect meeting spot for grabbing Italian and Spanish small plates.

The Natural Philosopher

Two for £16 on selected classics 6-8pm and 1 other offer

What could be a better way to spend a first date than trying out new cocktails together? It's even better when they're out of the ordinary and that's exactly what you'll get at East London cocktail spot The Natural Philosopher. Get your lips around tipples made with locally foraged ingredients, like the Hackney Hellbound, featuring horseradish and lacto-fermented plum sake, or the Silk Route, made with white rum, yuzu, mint and lime.

Il Maremmano

For a laidback first date in traditional Italian-inspired surrounds, Il Maremmano is an apericena bar which serves delicious Tuscan wines from an independent producer and delicacies from the beautiful Maremma region. Their dishes range from cheese or meat boards to mini pizzette topped with fresh buffalo mozzarella, and there's a cracking cocktail selection here too which includes refreshing spritzes and signature serves.

The Big Bakes

Fancy finding out whether your date is a top-notch chef in the making? Then be sure to check out The Big Bakes at various London locations for some non-stop fun. Not only will you have 90 minutes to whip up something tasty, but someone will also be crowned the winner. 

The Cocktail Club - Various Sites

There's an unmistakable party spirit to The Cocktail Club's venues, which comes out to play no matter what time of the week you're visiting; perfect for impressing a date that doesn't take themselves too seriously. Better yet, the drinks are spot on too.

Portobello Ristorante Pizzeria

Found in Notting Hill, an area of London made famous across the world because of the rom-com of the same name, Portobello Ristorante Pizzeria is equal parts romantic and relaxed - ideal for that first date. Think an intimate space made cosy with an authentic trattoria feel, as well as a gorgeous sun-trap of a terrace for any warmer months.

Tuck into perfectly blistered, wood-fired pizza alongside traditionally cooked meat and fish dishes, like wood oven-roasted monkfish wrapped in pancetta and charcoal-grilled sirloin steak.

BÓHA London

Looking for the perfect spot for a romantic date night? Look no further than BÓHA London, where intimate ambience meets exquisite cocktails. From the moment you step inside, you'll be enveloped in a warm and stylish atmosphere, perfect for a cosy evening with that special someone.

Whether you're sipping on expertly crafted cocktails in the 1920s-style speakeasy, or sharing a delightful small plate, this restaurant and bar offers an intimate, chic setting that invites conversation and connection. The dimmed lights, sophisticated decor, and attentive service make this the ideal place to make your date night truly memorable.

Gravity MAX Westfield Stratford City

Looking for the perfect spot for a first date? Gravity Max at Westfield Stratford City and in Wandsworth offers a fun and unique atmosphere that's perfect for breaking the ice. With exciting activities like bowling, mini-golf, and arcade games, it's a great way to get to know each other while having a blast.

Whether you're competing in a friendly game of pool or enjoying a delicious cocktail at the bar, there's plenty to keep the conversation flowing and the energy high. 

Steak & Lobster - Various Sites

So you're into the finer things in life? Show your date what you're about with a trip to one of Steak & Lobster's beautiful London venues. Treat them to a taste of luxury with classic cocktails ready for sipping, and a plate of juicy lobster and meaty steak.

135 Bar & Lounge

At 135 Bar & Lounge in Bethnal Green, luxury meets creativity in a space that feels both intimate and exclusive. Transforming from a traditional pub into a stunning cocktail bar, this venue is inspired by the sleek and stylish speakeasies of the 1930s. With its plush seating, dim lighting, and Art Deco details, 135 sets the stage for a sophisticated night out.

Treat yourself to expertly crafted cocktails, sip on premium wines, and enjoy gourmet small plates - while live jazz and soul music elevate the experience.

Fairgame Canary Wharf

Celebrate Easter with Free Fizz! 🐣 and 1 other offer

A very active London date idea, Fairgame Canary Wharf will certainly keep you and your date entertained with its innovative twist on fairground games, such as Roll-A-Ball Derby and Skeeball. Their app logs your scores and tracks leaderboards, so your competitive side is bound to come out on this first date. 

Expect lots of colourful decor, adding to the nostalgic vibe of this adults-only playground. And when all the excitement makes you peckish? Nab street food from Rudy's Pizza, Burger & Beyond or Taco Collective, paired with unique cocktails from the bar.

The Escapologist

Happy Hour and 1 other offer

Based upon the HQ of the secret society that ran Victorian London, The Escapologist is a beautifully designed basement bar pegged as 'part modern-day Victorian men's club and part Masonic Lodge'. Ideal for a relaxed first date, this vintage-themed bar serves a fun yet refined list of cocktails and cheese-drenched pizzas in the heart of Covent Garden.

Found

A go-to for a first date in London, Found is hidden away down Ravey Street. Just look for the unobtrusive door and head inside to a swanky speakeasy. Although it may be a bit cramped, the beautiful interiors and delicious cocktails make it well worth a visit.

Wildflowers Restaurant

If you want to impress your date, then take them to Wildflowers restaurant in Belgravia, found inside a former timber yard. This classy eatery flaunts a huge open kitchen where the chefs are whipping up seasonal Mediterranean fare cooked over coal, or why not take them upstairs to their wine bar instead? As for the menu, think harissa lamb tartare, slow-roasted duck with grilled cherries, Cornish turbot and more - paired with an Amalfi spritz.

Humble Grape Bars

Humble Grape's charming hangouts sprinkled all over London are sure to make your sweetheart swoon. Head down into multi-level, industrial-inspired haunts and snuggle up on a pew together. Spend your evening chatting, laughing and flirting as you sip on some premium vino in these charismatic caverns.

Boom Battle Bar Aldgate East

Sometimes it's good to inject a little adrenaline into a first date that goes beyond the nerves you get pre-meet-up. Take your beau axe throwing at Boom Battle Bar Aldgate East as a fun ice breaker, then try your hand at crazier golf to cool down. Fancy a game of shuffleboard? This atmospheric venue has got you covered. You can even stop for a bite to eat after and munch on an array of goodies such as juicy chicken burgers and loaded fries. The cocktails are not to be missed either, with signature concoctions such as the Boom Punch, made with passion fruit syrup, and a spiced mango margarita.